Showing posts with label behavior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label behavior. Show all posts

Thursday, December 26, 2013

A Merry Christmas Indeed

These faces say it all...


Christmas this year was as exciting as always - but Evan was especially excited.  He was Santa's number one fan and told our elf, Jaime, how good he was on a daily basis.
Mattie found herself on the naughty list quite a bit, but she behaved when she knew it really counted.

























Sunday, February 17, 2013

Here's the Latest

Unfortunately, when I say the latest, that means I'm about do a super brief coverage of the last few months.  I've been so bad about updating this blog that I find myself trying to catch everyone (including myself) up in one posting - my detailed postings from long ago are just that...from long ago - when life was simpler :)  But not nearly as exciting!

So, here goes...

Mattie Jane is now wearing panties!  She has done so awesome with potty training the last few weeks.  Other than a few wet diapers in the morning, she has managed to keep her diapers dry all day long.  Poopin' hasn't been quite as successful, but we're crossing our fingers that the transition to panties will encourage more potty use when she gets the urge. 


In addition to potty training, Mattie also transitioned to a big girl bed back in December.  We are in the process of adding the final touches to her big girl room - I will add a few pictures very soon.  But here's a little sneak peek...


In terms of growth and development, we are wondering where our baby girl has gone!  Mattie's vocabulary has exploded over the past six months and she has continued growing like a weed since birth.   She currently wears a 3T, but anything I buy from this point on will be a 4T.  She's snug as a bug in a rug in her 3Ts.

We're currently working on breaking the paci habit.  Mattie HAS to have her paci when she goes to bed.  Not only does she have to have one in her mouth, but she has to have a few reserves too.


I wonder if Dora and Boots would mind helping us out with this one...any one know how we can get in touch with them?  We're gonna need to bring in reinforcements for this one.

As for Evan - we now have a young man on our hands.  I am constantly blown away by his ability to think and reason.  He has a love for numbers and a love for learning in general.  He recently woke me up and said, "Mama, I can can count backwards."  Still half asleep I waited to hear "...10, 9, 8, 7..."  But instead I got "100, 99, 98, 97..." all the way to zero.  Yes, it was painful to sit there that long, but I was so impressed by this skill.  He then counted backwards from 100 by 10's and then 5's.  He recognizes and can write all of his numbers from 1 to 100 as well.

I am most impressed by these abilities because Evan just gets it.  He understands order and sequence which is the foundation for basic math.  He loves to read the clock and figure out how many minutes he has until his bedtime - and he always figures it out.

Evan is also excelling in reading.  He recognizes many of his sight words and also does a great job sounding out the words he is reading.  Because I am a teacher, I try really hard not to "over teach" Evan at home.  We take advantage of those teachable moments instead and he seems to respond positively to this.  Evan is very much a pleaser, so he loves to hear "good job" and "you're so smart" and all those encouraging phrases.


Since he began walking, Evan has walked on his toes.  For a long time we thought he would just grow out of it, but that has not been the case.  Here we are almost 4 years later and he is still perched up on those toes.

If he is bare footed and on a hard surface he will be high up on his toes, much like a ballerina.  With shoes on, he will rise up on his toes periodically, but most of the time he will walk flat footed.  But his flat footed walk doesn't look like the average flat footed walk.  He sways his hips a bit which tends to look feminine.

As concerned parents, we of course don't want Evan to suffer from any physical issues later on in life or any psychological issues from walking "differently."  We all know how evil school aged children can be.  I made contact with a physical therapist to see what, if anything, we could do to try and correct his issue.

We are about 4 sessions in, and while I don't think there will be a miraculous fix, I definitely learned a lot about what the underlying cause for the toe walking is and how we can work on resolving the issue over time.  In a nutshell, Evan walks on his toes because he has a weak core.  The therapist told me that because Evan started walking so early (10 1/2 months) and never crawled on his hands and knees, he never built up or strengthened his core.  So to compensate for this lack of strength, he walks up on his toes so his core is not doing most of the work.  That's also why when he does walk flat footed, it looks so awkward.  Consider me enlightened by this information.

So, believe it not, all those exercises I do at the gym are the same ones Evan needs to be doing at home.  We need to strengthen his core in order to take the load off his toes.  I'm thinking Evan and I should do Yoga videos together :)

While I love to brag about Evan and the wonderful big boy that he is, I will also say that he's annoying and gross just like the rest of the boys his age.  He constantly makes himself burp and calls his sister silly names just to make her mad.  He spits and hits, knowing how completely inappropriate it is.  But we of course understand that this is all normal - sometimes we have to hide our laughter (because it is actually funny at times) while other times we want to kill him.  And someday Mattie will probably get a good lick in for annoying things like this...


To wrap this posting up, I want to add that Robert was promoted to Regional Director for Wonderworks, Amanda and Scott welcomed Bryson Nash on February 7th and Todd and Barnes just had their first baby girl on February 16th!  We proudly welcome Olivia Katherine to the family!



Whew...that was a lot.




Saturday, March 17, 2012

Birthday Parties

This may sound terrible, but I am not a fan of birthday parties.  I haven't always felt this way though.  The realization hit me after I attended party #2 with Evan a month or so ago.  Much of my negativity - ok, all of my negativity - stems from my own child's behavior in the party environment.

Evan is, in no way, a social butterfly.  In fact, he is quite the opposite.  He prefers to run solo and seems to care less about what all the other kids are doing.  Case in point:  He was so excited to go to Payton and Ruby's party today at the Waccatee Zoo.  We show up ready to celebrate and he behaves like he knows none of the children at the party.  We urge him to sit down at the picnic table with the other kids to eat cake, but he refuses and instead walks down to feed the animals.  He never acknowledged the birthday girls and never even asked about the party while we were there - it literally did not exist in his mind.

This was the 4th party we've been to this year and all have resulted in similar behavior.  The only attention he's ever shown was throwing a few tantrums when he realized the birthday presents weren't for him.  Robert and I were super proud then.  We got to carry him out kicking and screaming. We can only imagine what the other parents must be thinking when our kid walks through the door...

Personalities are interesting.  We are extremely curious how Evan's will develop over the next few years.  His sister seems to be at the other end of the spectrum.  Watching their interaction can be very entertaining.

A few pics from our outing at the zoo...




Evan and Mattie fed the emus with great enthusiasm - that is until the emu got a hold of Evan's finger...




Sunday, January 8, 2012

Partners in Crime

We used to have quiet mornings.  Evan knew to come down quietly and play with his toys on our bedroom carpet until Mattie Jane decided to get up.  Now that Evan considers his sister his partner in crime, we awake to a little more excitement.

Also note Evan's "word for the day" - underwear.  I'm scared to know what other words he is teaching his sister.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

First Trip to the Dentist

Evan made his first appearance in the Dentist's Chair today (and a dreaded chair in my opinion).  The kid blew me away with his willingness to cooperate and his ability to stay out of trouble while I too got the dental treatment.  I then had to remind myself of Evan's "public self" and his "home self."  The bad behaviors he displays at home do not ever come out in front of others while out in public.  I guess this can be considered a blessing.  Nevertheless, he was fantastic at the dentist's office and was so brave - I beamed with pride, I really did.



His teeth were x-rayed and cleaned and then Dr. John came in to offer his final overview.  Results were great.  We were suggested to continue what we're doing at home because it's working.  I gave myself a pat on the back and Evan picked a prize out of the prize basket.



And having Dora to entertain us while we waited to check-out didn't hurt either.  First trip to the dentist was a success.

Sunday, September 25, 2011

Sunday in Pictures

Rainy, dreary weather means staying indoors and finding things to occupy our time - for Robert that was football, for the kids - games and wrestling which always result in crying - and for me...well, I just moseyed around with my camera to capture it all.



















Never a dull moment in this household - but early to bed the tired babies go!